What is the will of God?
WHAT IS THE WILL OF GOD?
“Thy will be done” that’s a tough order in the mind of a control hungry addict! That’s a tough order for any human for that matter unless they are thoroughly convinced that God’s will, will feel better than their own. And what’s more, what is God’s will anyway and where does it fit into the steps? Well most of us are familiar with the Eleventh Step prayer that is all about God’s will and our own self-centered dysfunction.
Eleventh Step Prayer of Saint Francis
“Lord make me a channel of thy peace — that where there is hatred, I may bring love — that where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of forgiveness — that where there is discord, I may bring harmony — that where there is error, I may bring truth — that where there is doubt, I may bring faith — that where there is despair, I may bring hope — that where there are shadows, I may bring light — that where there is sadness, I may bring joy.
Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted — to understand, than to be understood — to love, than to be loved.
For it is by self-forgetting that one finds. It is by forgiving that one is forgiven. It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life…
Starting the day with this prayer is a good way to test if Gods will really is better than our own. Experience is what strengthens faith not just words. Meaning; we can be told all day long that God’s will is best and halfway believe it but if we pray this prayer and then reap the benefits of fulfillment, enlightenment, some joy and some tears then we know that even though we are sober and OK our hearts and minds are more at peace when we are in the will of our creator. Test the prayer.
If we are seeking an answer to the question “what is the will of God” then the best answer available is “help others and do no harm.” We are human, we have defects of character and patterns of false pride, ego, and fear. It is best that we understand it is not our place to tell others what to do and especially not our place to tell others what God’s will is for them. We may however express suggestions for the benefit of those who have requested them. We as members of Alcoholics Anonymous should be careful to not play God.
It is said that pure power corrupts, having sponcees and fellows who look up to us should not be an abused power. When we are careful to not tell other adults what we think they should do or make their choices for them we leave them room to grow emotionally. Making right choices and reaping the benefits is much of what emotional growth is based in. Furthermore each man has the right to reach their own level of incompetence.